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How to be a Real Daddy beyond Fatherhood

by Gideon Dosu

HOW TO BE A REAL DADDY: BEYOND FATHERHOOD
It is easier to be a father than to be a Real Daddy. Fatherhood is Biology, it takes much more to be a Daddy. Any Male can be a father, it takes a Man, I mean a real man to be a Daddy. With an erection, you are qualified to be a father, but an erection does not make you a Daddy, It takes much more. Yes, it takes everything, I mean, it takes the total you.
D- DISCIPLINED: A Daddy is a discipline Man, he is full of Godly character. He is disciplined enough to deny himself of pleasure to give his family the best. He will avoid doing some things so that his Children can get the best from him. His Godly character is a pride to all his Children and his wife.

How to be a Real Daddy beyond Fatherhood

How to be a Real Daddy beyond Fatherhood

A- AVAILABLE: A Daddy is one that is available to raise a Child he gave birth to,a father may just be a “sperm donor” impregnating the woman go his way,a Dad do much more,he is available to Nurture, involve care, teach and training the Child and to love, care, cherish and romance his wife, that is Dad.
In 1960, only 11% of children in the U.S. lived apart from their fathers. By 2010, that share had risen to 27%. The share of minor children living apart from their mothers increased only modestly, from 4% in 1960 to 8% in 2010
Been available makes you a great father, A dad, you can’t be a visiting or midnight father and be a Daddy. You must be available help with the homework, attend Parent teachers meetings and be involved in raising a total Child.

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D- DEPENDABLE
For any man to be a Daddy he must be dependable. God must be able to depend on you to train, teach,discipline,correct, reproof and raise Great Children.
Been at home is not even enough, you must be totally involved in Parenting the Child, raising the Child according to his or her age, because you are not suppose to raise Children of different ages the same way, your involvement in their lives must be according to their ages.
National Health Statistics Reports
activities by age group are presented below. For children under age 5, activities include:
+ Eating meals with or feeding the children
+ Bathing, diapering, or dressing the children, or helping the children bathe, dress, or use the toilet themselves
+ Playing with the children
+ Reading to the children
For children aged 5–18, activities include:
+ Talking with the children about things that happened during their day
+ Eating meals with the children
+ Helping the children with homework or checking that the homework had been done
+ Taking the children to or from activities
D- DISTINCT: A Dad is a man of distinction, a man of character, yes, a model. He is totally different from other Men,the children can spot and see the difference and they are proud of him. They try to emulate him, they copy him to be a better copy. He is their example,he is their hero. While other fathers are in the Night clubs this distinct one is at home to tender his family.
Y- YOKED WITH HIS FAMILY:  Dad is totally yoked with his family. Hi family is paramount in his heart,he is totally bias in their favor,he love and cherish his children and wife. He is ready to do everything to protect,defend,provide and Nurture his children,he is their hero.
To fathers,may other things may come first before their families,but to a Dad,Family comes first,he is their friends,fans and principal family member,he is taken,he is totally their own,their lives is his life and he has no regret about it.
When a man yoke himself like this with his Children,it always has great effect in the lives of his Children no matter their age,they will feel loved, acceptable and honor, it affects their self-esteem and their performance in school.
“Boys with actively involved fathers tend to get better grades and perform better on achievement tests”
Biller, H.B. 1993, Fathers, and Families: Paternal Factors in Child Development, Westport, CT: Auburn House.
In The Role of the Father in Child Development Abramovitch, H, wrote that “Highly involved fathers contribute to increased mental dexterity in children, increased empathy, less stereotyped sex-role beliefs and greater self-control”

 

HOW TO BE A REAL DADDY: BEYOND FATHERHOOD

HOW TO BE A REAL DADDY: BEYOND FATHERHOOD

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