5 Common Habits That Poison a Relationship
A relationship does not end overnight if there is love. The problem is that even with love, some end up in the medium or long term due to the wear and tear of the relationship for small things and irritating habits.
5 Common Habits That Poison a Relationship
Be aware of these 5 habits that undermine the relationship and poison it, often in a mortal way, with no chance of reconciliation. They usually cause small hurts that accumulate over time and eventually break the limits of what is acceptable. To prevent it from happening with your current or future relationship, here are:
5 common habits that most poison a relationship (not necessarily in that order)
1. Avoid discussions
At the first sign that there is going to be a discussion, the person raises his voice, becomes angry and the victim, and leaves without even hearing his partner. Nobody can take that much time.
2. Do not be assertive
When the opinion is requested, the partner looks up, makes an undecided face, and says not knowing. Or it says, “Whatever you decide, it’s settled.” Usually, this is an “I do not compromise” attitude.
3. Silence
Nothing worse for the relationship than the treatment of silence. This is an aggressive tactic that pretends not to be. Usually, those who use it are exercising control rather than “trying to calm down” as such an attitude suggests. It’s the famous “sulking.”
Child attitude that does nothing to solve problems, but it is certainly a foot out of the relationship. New problem-solving strategies have to be created.
4. Make “shack”
This is so obvious that perhaps it should not even be on the list, but it is good for the hut to know that no one is interested in his particular problems, that such an attitude is ugly, unpleasant and ungainly. The old saying “dirty laundry is washed at home” is more than valid when it comes to love affairs.
5. Telling everything to others
Usually, the offended party has the tendency to go out telling others everything that happens between the couple until it reaches the point of quarrels and discussions. If you are already adults, you do not have to “tell everything to your mother”, your friend, your father or whoever.
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This exposure, in addition to being unnecessary, can create a dislike for your family or friends towards your spouse, which can make coexistence even more difficult. Unless it is to seek professional or religious counseling or one of them is being abused, taking risks, there is no need for others to know what happens in the relationship.
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