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Secrets of great marriages in Nigeria

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Secrets of great marriages in Nigeria

Secrets of great marriages in Nigeria

Secrets of great marriages in Nigeria

-Bisi Oludare

Secrets of great marriages in Nigeria

Secrets of great marriages in Nigeria

 

Every great thing in life have secrets and in most cases, these secrets are not hidden just that few people are ready to work/walk consciously, persistently, consistently and with full concentration in order to achieve this greatness.
If what you want is a great marriage that is devoid of cheating, lying, unfaithfulness but full of happiness, peace, joy, and love, look no further as we are just about to give you the tips needed as the secret of great marriages in Nigeria.
The fear of God is a key secret of great marriage in Nigeria. Any couple that fears God and is ready to make Him the pillar of their home will definitely enjoy a great marriage.
Understanding is another very important secret. If you understand your spouse without assuming when he/she says anything but you are able to comprehend fully, then great marriage is not far from you
Constant communication is needed. Every great marriage in Nigeria is a product of good, efficient and constant communication. This is not where you listen to reply but you give your undivided attention in order to understand your spouse then see how you can get better
Staying off social media, great couples stay off social media. This is not saying that they don’t use their phones to check social media but they know when to use it, what to use it for and how to use it so that it doesn’t affect their marriage. Importantly, they don’t put everything happening in their home on social media
No third party interference, great marriages don’t allow any third party to their marriage. They make their union the cord of three that cannot be easily broken which is God, the husband, and the wife.
They are open to each other. There is no room for secrecy. So, if you desire to have a great marriage, stop keeping things from your spouse
They do the parenting work together. They talk to and discipline their children with one voice. They exhibit unity in this area and so it makes them have triple G children; children that are good, great and godly
They accept, appreciate and celebrate their differences while they try to get better for each other
They don’t shift blames when there are issues to be sorted but they handle their issues in a mature way thereby reaching a confluence instead of the conflict tearing them apart.
Proper financial management, one of the marriage killers known is money and so great couples in Nigeria have learnt about financial management. They do not only learn but they practice it in their family, so this doesn’t cause any problem between the couple.
Prayer, it is true that a family that prays together stays together. So praying together is something great couples in Nigeria should not joke with.
Spending quality time together, time is life and so spending time with your spouse is like giving your life which they appreciate.
They don’t have sex outside marriage. Sex is meant to be enjoyed in marriage, this truth is well understood by Nigeria couples and so it makes them closer and makes their marriage great.
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