SEVEN SHOCKING THINGS EVERY LADY MUST KNOW ABOUT MEN (VIDEO)
Below are seven things every single lady must know about men.
#1. Men focus on one thing at a time: Most women are naturally born with the ability to multitask. That is doing more than one thing at a time. But men tend to be more focused one thing at a time. A man may have several things to handle but he will prefer to take them one after the other to avoid distraction.
#2. Men appreciate the little things: Men are simple creatures that appreciate the small things more than any woman would ever imagine. Small things do move men and can make them give their eyeballs in appreciation. It could be as meaningful as an affirming word, as creative as cooking his favourite meal, a visit to his office, gift etc.
#3. Men are caregivers: What needs to be realized among our culture at large is that there are immeasurable strength and courage in a man with a kind heart. Compassion, kindness, and tenderness are signs of nothing but true masculinity, and it is this kind of “boring men” that make the most amazing husbands- the ones that love, give, and sacrifice to the very last breath.
#4. We care less about looks than you think: Have you ever heard the saying, “Women dress for other women”? Well, I think in many ways, it’s true. From what I’ve heard from countless men. Men see women as most beautiful in the most natural form of themselves. They don’t need the frills, sparkles and scents. Men definitely don’t care about the bags, the shoes, or the nails. Infact, many men don’t know the difference between a Brazillian Hair and a Tanzanian Hair (lol). A real man is not looking for the most beautiful woman in the world, but for the one who will make his world most beautiful.
#5. Men hate to be criticised: Criticism is a man’s worst nightmare. Deep down, all men are like little boys- trying to please the primary woman in their life. For adult married men, that primary woman is their bride. They want to please her, and they hold their head up high as she looks into their eyes with a look of approval and delight. The one thing that can snuff out their joy in a moment’s notice- is to put them down. To notice the things they aren’t doing, aren’t saying, aren’t completing- instead of notice all of the good things that they are.
#6. Men love women with self-confidence: There is nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who can hold her head up high, believing the good things about who God has made her to be. Because a woman of confidence is aware that her value is rooted in nothing else but who she is in Christ, there is no need to flirt around or flaunt her stuff.
#7. Men want a playmate: Just as much as women don’t want to play “mommy” to their man- a man doesn’t want to be treated like a child. Some of the most troubled marriages I see are when this parent-child dynamic begins to be played out in a relationship. Men want to be loved by feeling respected and treated that way. They want to know that you are by their side not to take care of them, but to do life with them. Most men are looking for a woman to laugh with, to play with, and to enjoy life with. They are looking for a best friend to marry, and a loyal partner to love for life.