The 8 foundations of marriage
According to a Master Coach who had been married for 32 years opined that in marriage a lot of issues occur.
In the early years of marriage, things get complicated because there were two sides that made the relationship distant and challenging, that is, differences of opinion and many differences interfered in the happiness of the couple.
Over the years, you need to add up the positive differences and perfect the negative differences together. Through this attitude came more partnership and both matured, so positive actions increased every day and, with it, love.
See the foundations of marriage we have provided for you below.
1. Recognition
Knowing how to recognize your own faults within the relationship is a positive step toward having happiness in the home, and this can be done on a daily basis. When the spouse observes the situations that surround them and with a good dialogue it is possible to clarify what happened, thus identifying the difficulties and produces constructive actions.
Finding and recognizing vulnerabilities of yourself is of great value in the relationship, however, seeing your partner’s faults and exercising patience with them will demonstrate the value you give to your partner.
2. Learning
For coaching, recognizing mistakes within the relationship is the first step, however, it is only valid when it is possible to learn from failures and apply learning.
It is also necessary to learn from the other person what it dominates most and you do not, such as patience and kindness, it develops full trust within the relationship.
3. Support
Support is critical to the relationship. It is important to support domestic chores, education and child care, however, support is also needed in the studies of the spouse or something that is involved in developing their qualities.
4. Humility
Humility is one of the strongest and most enduring foundations of a relationship, but it is also harder to find in many relationships.
The husband must have the humility to recognize his weaknesses and ask his wife for help, and the same reciprocity must exist in the wife as well, because the couple who help themselves tend to tire less and find more strength to deal with their difficulties.
5. Listen
Couples need to learn to listen, that is, listen to and process what the other person is actually saying, striving to listen to it is a great way to care for the spouse and demonstrate true love.
When a relationship has partners who are willing to listen and pay attention to the needs and longing of the other, it will hardly fall into the routine.
6. Respect
Respect should be mutual within the relationship, but this is not always the case, due to selfishness on the part of one of the spouses. The partnership exists in the relationship, when the partner has total respect for the individuality of the spouse.
7. Goals and targets
Goals and goals go together in the relationship. Couples who want to progress in relationships and personal lives should become aware of the need to plan family leisure, finances, and many ways to overcome their shortcomings in the well-being of the home.
8. Partnership
A marriage is made up of two people: husband and wife. Together, they form a couple who walk side by side, being partners in everything, surpassing the sadness, overcoming the obstacles and enjoying the moments of happiness in partnership.
Cooperativism is of great value to the relationship, but love is essential if this partnership is to work.
Article by Akinbode Toluleke check up Twitter on taakinbode
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