Top 6 Secret to Winning A Woman’s Heart
There is that woman, that woman you flashed your eyes on and, oh my God, she caught your eyes. From then up to now, all you ever dream about is having her, making her yours. Of course, finding the right woman for you is your first step but then winning her heart is your next and important step towards your relationship achievements. Winning a woman’s heart is easy and does not need you to visit all relationship counselors or even read all books about relationships. Just look at these five most effective secrets of winning a woman’s heart.
- Be confident and have self-esteem
Do you know how many men have ever lost the women they had fallen for only because they were not confident enough to make the approach? Do you know that sometimes that same woman (irrespective of her position, job, and family background) has fallen for you and she is just waiting for you to approach her and say something? For God’s sake, this is the most important secret in any man’s life towards the success of winning a woman’s heart. So, do not miss that opportunity and walk your way to her let her know how you feel. Every woman, no matter her position, longs for such a man. And remember, it does not need you to be a king first before you can build your confidence and self-esteem.
- Dress like you mean business
Dressing poorly by wearing clothes that don’t fit or have stains or holes shows a woman that you don’t respect yourself (which doesn’t work in your favor!). Dressing in clothes that are out of date (too old-fashioned), usually shows that you are mentally stuck in that time and cannot move forward. In order to show a woman that her heart is safe with you, dress in modern clothes that look good on your body, fit, and are clean.
- Smell great
Women love someone who smells great. Shower regularly, use deodorant, brush your teeth, and you might even want to consider using a cologne or body spray. Citrus scents usually make for a clean scent that isn’t overpowering, so they are a good place to start if you’re not sure
- Surprise your woman of interest
To surprise is simply to be out of the blue from nowhere and doing, saying, or offering something unexpectedly. All women love surprises. Yes, surprise her with a love letter (oh no, not so romantic, just say how she means a lot to you. I mean, value her friendship). Some people emphasize declaring your intentions earlier on during your relationship building, but I do not agree with this principle.
From experience, I believe the best way to win over a woman’s heart is to start on her in the name of friendship, I mean serious and meaningful friendship. It is during this period that your surprises really make a meaning to her. Also, from the point of having strong relationships and marriage, starting as friends gives you both the chance of knowing each other.
After you have made the approach and opened up the connection, it is time to surprise her with gifts, flowers, love or friendship letters, words, and attributes she never thought of herself. Imagine you are chatting as usual and then you throw in a comment like this; “by the way, do you know that you look lovely and you are a great woman to be with?”
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Make her feel special to you in an unexpected way. Invite her for your special event like birthday, make a mix CD or music selection and take to her, buy her a rose flower, offer her a gift like a bag, shoes or anything. Sing for her when you are seated together and remember to surprise her with a pet name.
- Claim her and take care of her
Every woman, no matter her position, wants to belong somewhere, I mean to a man. When you love a woman, claim her and let her know that you do. This is the basis for your offer of protection and the care she longs for. Women want to hear a man say, ‘you are mine and I won’t let you go’. Yes, as one writer puts it, “When you claim your woman, it’s not a process of acquiring her into belonging to you, but an offering of guidance and protection, which you are devoting yourself to. You are offering your courageous heart and profound love and inviting her to open boundlessly while you holding a safe container for her”.
In other words, you are giving her more freedom and pleasure of life than she would have without belonging to you, to anyone.
She can be better than you in everything including money, physical strength, positions, family, and job, but she needs your care and protection more than anything. A woman shall fall for a man who defends her ideas, her style, and her life. Care for health, dressing, her work, and success even though you may need her resources to actually show the care and protection.
- Become a winner and successful
For God’s sake, no woman can admire a failing man. All women long for great men and she longs for that kind of man too. She has to see a successful man in you, a man of your word and duty. This has less, if not nothing, to do with your financial successes or other crazy attributes like fame, power, or influence as so many men think, it has everything to do with your everyday successes and how you handle work. In other words, be good, effective, and committed at whatever work you do, she will fall for you.
In conclusion, when you have fallen for a woman, chances are that she has fallen for you too, but she is waiting for you to make the approach and trigger her into the game. Even though she may not be aware of you or your existence, never should you fear to make a move on a woman that has stolen your heart and desires. There is a lot you can do to make her fall for you as well, but all these can be summarized up in four words; “BE A GOOD MAN”.