Two Secret Things That Will Make Your Marriage Better
Marriage growth is often hindered and later become stunted because of the barriers the two lovers involved set between each other.
Barriers in marriage are often created mostly by offenses especially offenses from both partners that linger without being resolved properly.
For your marriage to become better and grow accordingly, these two factors must be in place and they are Apologies and Forgiveness.
Show me a marriage where the partners don’t offend each other and I will show you a marriage that does not exist at all. Friends, Acquaintances, Siblings offend each other no matter how close they are and the same goes for spouses.
Offenses cannot break a marriage on their own but the reaction of the offender and the offended can do so. It is important for both parties to make the right adjustments when needed so as to safeguard their marriage.
Anyone that is guilty of committing an offense in a marriage relationship should not be too big to use the Apology key and it is as simple as saying “I AM SORRY”. This simple key can melt the strongest ice in the mind of the offended.
Anyone who is at the receiving end of an offense should know that no offense is too great to be sorted out, he or she just need to make use of the Forgiveness key and this may be hard sometimes but it starts with this positive confession which is “I FORGIVE YOU”.
Some wounds may take time to heal depending on how grave the offense is but it is important to let bygones remain bygones so that you can enjoy your life with your dearest.