Learning to say “I am sorry” in marriage or in a relationship could be a forbidden fruit for so many people to say.
The journey of a man and his wife into becoming couple can easily be jeopardized if certain key phrases are not well used in the occasion of grievances or quarrel.
One major reason why marriages are easily destroyed after a quarrel ensued is the inability to say “I am sorry”.
As short as it though seems, if you wish to have a happy married life like couples will say every Saturday, or even if you want to live long, don’t ever joke with this short sentence, “I am sorry”.
The word, I am sorry can really be a therapeutic dose you will need in times of trouble or in those time of your life when you seem not to be accepted by anyone. It can be the only grease you will need to oil the machinery of life, which will cause life to move easily for you.
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Are you aware that lots of lives walk hurriedly to their grave just because they wouldn’t want to take your advice for some egocentric reasons? Yes, umpteen times, being egocentric is the major cause of some untimely death, unexpected divorce, and unexpected breakups. In short, unexpected everything.
Do you know just saying, I am sorry can cause a ceasefire in a country that has already been boiling with great anger? Really, not every war we need to shoot bow and arrow at, what most of us need is simply to be humble enough to plead for forgiveness. At times, to stay at the “defeated” end just to let peace reign might be all you need do.
The trouble in most family stems up from the fact that most wives are too big to say I am sorry to their husbands and you can trust, the ego of a husband in saying same to their wives.
Quarrel lingers between friends because no party wants to say “I am sorry”. Each asks, why should I be the first to say I am sorry? He or she would beat his or her chest and utter the ego phrase, “a whole me!
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Interestingly some parents can be extremely egocentric too up to the extent of not being able to apologize to their children talkless of saying sorry. But life becomes more interesting and easy to live when we are not too carried away by position or status to admit our wrong.
For a lingering trouble in your family or relationship, you may not need to call the third party to resolve your differences for you. You might just be shocked to know that “I am sorry” is all you need to say.
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