There is a language that is meant to be spoken by every real man. It’s not English, Spanish, Chinese, French, Ibo or Yoruba Languages. It’s called the Unity Language.
Only great men and good husbands speak this language.
Some of the vocabularies of the Unity Language are :
1. What do you think?
Every good husband does ask for the opinion of his wife. Though the husband has the final say, every real man knows that his wife must have both the ‘quarter and semi final say’.
2. How can I help? How may I be of help? What do you want me to do to help you?
Every good Husband always finds a way of helping and supporting his wife at home. He will not just cross his legs watching TV, eating and sleeping while his wife labour herself to death.
3. I trust you.
It takes secure men to trust their wives. Some men are full of insecurity, envy and jealousy; bringing up wrong accusations without proof.
4. I am proud of you.
Unfortunately, many men don’t say this. Real men are proud of their wives and they don’t hide it. They say it with appreciation.
5. I was wrong, I am sorry.
The phrase ‘I am sorry’ is too big for so many men. Real men don’t find it difficult to say. If you want a great marriage, learn to say sorry when you are wrong. If you can not say sorry, your marriage will be in a sorry state.
6. Thank you.
Appreciation is very easy for great husbands to express. They are so appreciative of their wives efforts.