How To Feed The Soul Of Your Spouse And Turn Her On

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How To Feed The Soul Of Your Spouse And Turn Her On

–Bisi Adewale

If you must feed the soul of your spouse and turn her on, you must meet his or her spiritual needs. You must connect spiritually before you can connect physically and romantically. This you can do in the following ways:

PRAY TOGETHER Couples who consistently pray together are said to be statistically less likely to divorce than couples who do not pray together. Start by simply taking a few minutes at the end of each day to say a prayer with and for each other.

Tiffany Fletcher has the following to say about praying together:”When a couple prays together, they are inviting God into their marriage. Not only will he help a couple in times of trouble, he will warn them when their marriage is in danger. Pray together every morning and night, taking turns vocalizing the prayer. Pray for your spouse, and let him hear you pray to God on his behalf. This will knit your hearts together in unity and love for each other”

STUDY THE BIBLE TOGETHER: when a couple reads the Bible together, they are not only opening their minds, they are opening their hearts, read and study the Bible together.

How can you turn your spouse into your soul mate? First, you must choose empathy—understanding and enter into another person’s feelings. By putting yourself in their shoes, you become more sensitive.

ATTEND CHURCH TOGETHER: Tiffany Fletcher said “Attending church together weekly not only allows a couple to connect spiritually, it will help them build a firm foundation for their marriage that is built upon common faith and beliefs. It will also allow a couple to learn and grow together in their faith and their spirituality, and will strengthen a husband and wife both individually, and as a couple.”

Attend Church together to grow in faith together and build an edge around your home.

HAVE A STRONG FAMILY ALTAR: Let the whole family pray together regularly, this will help a lot as the family ALTAR is the place you can ALTER the plans of the enemy against your home.

Talking about touching your spouse soul

I won’t close this without bringing to your notice what Jimmy Evans has to say about it:

“You must choose generosity. Give your spouse kindness, attention, communication. Invest in your spouse and your marriage will flourish.

Finally, choose to prioritize your spouse. Your marriage only works if it comes first—above your work, children, church, or hobbies. Only your relationship with God should rank above your marriage in priority”

4) FEED HIS OR HER BODY: An average couple hardly touches each other except for sex; this is not good at all. Every little child loves to be carried and cuddled, that little Child is still in all of us, including your spouse, make your marriage better, touch your spouse in special ways, let us explore some of them.

-Hug generously daily (at least 5 minutes)

-Massage each other daily

-Scratch each other back daily

-Caress each other’s feet (DON’T tickle)

-Caress each other’s back. Pay special attention to the back of the neck at the hairline and the area just above the small of the back.

— Try to go to bed when your partner does every night.

Have a period of fifteen to thirty minutes every night to lie in each other’s arms in the dark before you drift off to sleep. Whisper together, sharing private thoughts and pleasant little experiences of the day. Avoid controversial or negative topics. This is the time to build intimacy and wind down for sleep. You will become used to sharing things with each other that you would not otherwise mention. In each other’s arms, the hurts and frustrations of the day are healed. You may want to pray together at this time, or just relax in the comfort of physically-felt love.

Hold hands when strolling
Sleep on the sofa with head on each other’s laps.
Establish the cosy habit of staying in some sort of physical contact while you are going to sleep—a hand or a leg touching your partner’s, for instance.
Scratch the scalp of the head of your spouse, women especially need this
Cuddle each other in bed daily
Sleep in as few clothes as possible at night. Clothes are only a hindrance during these touching sessions
Bath together regularly at least once a week
Touch when you are talking and maintain eye contact.
Sit close to each other in church.
Kiss each other when there is no occasion for it. Add variety to your kisses, your touches, and your love pats.
Give room for long foreplay before lovemaking.
Be generous with lovemaking, make sex a beautiful and enjoyable experience for each other by doing the following:
Talk about it
Plan about it
So it regularly
make sure both parties enjoy it
Learn about it in the right way