19 Hot Sex Tips For Men (How to make your woman orgasm in 20 seconds)
Hello, yes, you. This article is for you and your ability to read to the end will add great value to your sex life and make your marriage a great one.
Do you know that being handsome, wealthy and doing great will mean nothing to your spouse if you can not satisfy her sexually?
What makes you an able man is your ability to satisfy your woman sexually. Many women have great men who are influencers in our society and yet can’t satisfy them sexually. This is why you see some high-class women having secret affairs with their aids (security men, cleaners etc). Some of them are even paying money to sexually able young men to have sex with them.
As a man, you should be able to satisfy your woman sexually and this is why I am sharing this article (sex tips) with you because I love you and want you to enjoy your marriage.
Even if you think you are proficient sexually enough there is still room for improvement with the help of sex tips.
Try these simple, achievable sex tips with your lover tonight.
1. Discuss sex. As time passes in a relationship, it’s easy to get into a rut and just go through the motions, rather than express what you really want (and need) in bed.
Ask your partner for evaluation. Ask your partner what she is expecting from you in bed. Don’t forget also to let her know your expectation too. Talk about it, and put your discovery into action.
2. Take healthy foods. I know you will be wondering about the relationship between what you eat and your sex life, but the truth is, the foods you eat have a great role to play in your sexual performance.
Treating your body right with good nutrition helps the whole body, including your libido. Eating healthy foods reduces cholesterol and keeps your cardiovascular system humming. This will ensure that circulation is at peak performance for the southern hemisphere.
3. Regular exercise. Having regular exercise will get you ready to satisfy your women each day. Even as little as 15 minutes of exercise daily will improve your libido. Having regular exercise makes the physical aspects of sex more enjoyable. Also, making exercise a habit promotes cardiovascular health, which is necessary for normal erectile function. But don’t overdo it.
4. Work out with your partner. If exercise is good, then exercising with your lover is a better sex tip. Working out together ensures that both libidos and endorphins will be up. Since you’re both already sweating, take it to the next level. Stretching together is also a good idea.
5. Abstain a bit. Abstinence from sex is a good way to improve your sex life. It makes your next encounter with your lover even more exciting.
Practice abstinence for a couple of days, a weekend, or a week. Abstinence does make the heart grow fonder and prepares you more for action. But make sure you discuss this with your lover before doing this.
6. Plan for sex. The reason why many don’t enjoy their sex life or fail to satisfy their partners sexually is that they don’t plan sex. They just find themselves doing it whenever they feel like doing it. Planning sex may sound strange to you, but it is one of the most romantic ways to satisfy your lover.
It’s a great way to improve your sex life and satisfy your woman. Design a plan for having sex. Setting aside time or arranging opportunities for sex is very important, especially for busy couples or those with children. Don’t let the frequency of sex dwindle due to fatigue or the inability to find the ‘right time.
7. Do your household chores. Want to put your wife in the mood for better sex? Help around the house. The best foreplay happens outside the bedroom. By helping with chores and errands, you make her feel valued.
8. Take advantage of technology. Want to keep her in the mood for sex later that night while you’re stuck at the office? Use your cell phone or e-mail. Send her sexy messages throughout the day.
9. Compliment her body. Don’t just look forward to having sex with her, take time to compliment her body. Want a foolproof way to drive her wild and ensure better sex?
Find a particular feature, and tell her that she is the best in this class.
10. Focus on relaxation. Men like to get excited for better sex, but women are more likely to get in the mood through relaxation. Wash her hair and body in the shower or massage her scalp to relax her. A woman needs to be relaxed before she is ready to receive.
11. Never skip foreplay. Another reason why many men are not satisfying their partners is that many don’t give time for foreplay. They just want to start sex.
Foreplay prepares the two lovers for the main show, especially the woman. Foreplay contributes greatly to stronger orgasms and improved sex.
Gearing up your autonomic nervous system will increase sensitivity, excitement, and strength of orgasm. Your patience and attentiveness will pay dividends.
12. Think like a woman. To think like a woman in bed, you don’t have to be one. Give attention to some of her most neglected areas, like her neck, her feet, and her inner thighs. Tease her mercilessly. Make her want it.
You will be surprised what the build-up will bring.
13. Give her the chance to take the lead. Men so often take the lead in bed. Sometimes, the key to better sex is letting her be in charge. Don’t be afraid to let your woman lead.
Allow her to initiate sexual pleasure on occasions, as well as take the top position.
14. Don’t overlook lubricant. There’s no shame in using lubricant to satisfy your woman. Many guys think that since women get wet, if they aren’t wet, then they aren’t into it. That’s not true. Sometimes, whether it’s stress, certain times of the month, or fatigue, women can have a hard time getting physically aroused even when they are mentally in the game.
15. Switch things up. If you’re experiencing a case of the “same-old, same-old,” working on adding a little variety is the key to better sex. Spice things up by planning and discussing variations on your usual sexual habits. Lingerie, foreplay, new positions, and other creative additions can enhance intimacy and orgasm.
16. Try another location. Another way to add variety and improve sex life is to try some new places. Do it in different places to experience different energy. Use different locations in the house and you can also use hotels and other available places.
17. Decide to make love and not just to have sex.
Does it feel lately like it’s just sex? Try making love. You make love with that special someone, but you can have sex with just anybody.
18. Use touch even without sex. Even when you’re not having sex, you can still improve your sex life by using touch in an intimate, but not sexual, way. Touching is important but doesn’t always mean sex. It is important to be intimate with your mate by touching her with love and affection on a daily basis. Kiss daily, and don’t be afraid to allow her to reciprocate.
19. Self-care. Take good care of your penis. Penile injury is usually sustained when your partner is on top or when the penis buckles from missed penetration. If things are getting out of hand, ask your partner to ease up. If you suspect a penile fracture due to a perceived ‘pop’ followed by bruising, see a urologist immediately.
Try these sex tips today and see the difference in your sex life.
