23 New Ways To Keep Romance Alive In Your Marriage…no.10 is very hot!
–By Bisi Adewale
The only thing that must be your aim in that marriage, no matter how long you have been married, is to keep the romance alive and you can’t keep the romance alive without igniting passion daily in your union. Passion is the door to romance. A wise man said, “A marriage full of passion will maintain its position; a marriage without passion has opposition within”.
These are 23 new ways to keep the romance alive in your marriage:
(1) Practice the Garden of Eden constantly. The Bible says, “Adam and Eve were naked but not ashamed”. Make it very easy and exciting to sleep together in the room stark naked without even nursing thought of sex and if it happens, why not? Let the joy of the Garden of Eden return into your marriage. To ensure this, women should do away with wearing “tight” and short to bed, let love flow freely.
(2) No reason is good enough to disturb your time together. Create and spend quality time together. Never be satisfied with not being together just for talking, playing. After all, you are supposed to be friends.
(3) Get comfortable with each other’s shape. Stop complaining about your shape or that of your spouse. Appreciate your look and your partner’s. Look for the positive sides of life.
(4) Let there be an element of surprise. Give a surprise gift, touch, birthday bash and compliment. Surprise your spouse and ignites love. Avoid being predictable.
(5) Learn to send seasoned messages to each other
(6) Look for ways to add touch to your relationship. Hold hands often, hug your spouse just to show you are in love.
(7) Develop a sense of belonging and togetherness
(8) Crack jokes and laugh.
(9) Increase both SDA and PDA. SDA means Secret Display of Affection while PDA means Public Display of Affection. Exhibit love. Let your friends, colleagues and children know you are in love.
(10) Read marriage books together. Especially those on marital sex written by Christian marriage counsellors. Our book; SEXUAL FULFILMENT IN MARRIAGE, SECRETS OF AN IRRESISTIBLE WIFE and SECRETS OF AN IRRESISTIBLE HUSBAND is highly recommended.
(11) Enjoy listening to each other
(12) Send at least a romantic text message to each other daily
(13) Make it a habit to bath together every night
(14) Look forward to having long and fulfilling sex with your spouse
(15) Enjoy praying together
(16) Enjoy studying the Bible together
(17) Speak kindly to each other often
(18) Never forget to tell your spouse ‘I love you’ everyday.
(19) Never forget to tell your spouse how handsome/beautiful he/she looks
(20) Husbands should appreciate new hair-do and dressing of their wives.
Tell her:
-You look like a baby girl
– You look like under sixteen
– You look sexy and “edible”
– You look kinky
– You look younger than the first day I met you
– Your dressing will make me grab you, take you into the room and “eat” you raw
-Girl, you look more beautiful than Miss World in this
– You have a good dress sense; you always dress to kill me
– Babe, this is too much! You deserve 20 kisses, 40hugs and 10 rounds in the bedroom for this.
– You just look good in this baby
(21) Send a romantic card to each other in the office.
(22) Take a weekend off and go for “honeymoon” together in a hotel, guest house, retreat centre, resort centre or any good place far from home.
(23) Never allow sex to become monotonous. Try other styles, not just the usual “missionary” style. Try other places aside from your bedroom. Why not in the sitting room, guest room, bathroom, dining room, on the mat in your room, on the chair in the sitting room or on the rug? Just make sure you are alone.
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