6 Reasons Why You Should Not Repay In Kind To A Betrayed Relationship
It is very common to see people saying that the best revenge for a betrayal is to return in the same coin. Really? Here are 6 reasons why doing this is stupid:
1. You are lowering yourself to his level
He did a terrible thing; Do you want to match it? You are still married, so if you have a case, even if it’s to get your revenge, you’re committing adultery just like him. There is nothing honorable about it.
2. You are getting involved with someone for the wrong reason
Sexual intimacies are very beautiful and sacred, they should be reserved for someone special, in a conjugal relationship and not only as an instrument of revenge or irresponsible pleasure.
Being intimate with another man in such circumstances could impair your ability to re-experience a romantic love and to believe in healthy relationships.
3. If you use a married man to get revenge, you are only matching your husband’s lover
If another woman was (at least in part) responsible for all the suffering you and your children are feeling, why would you want to be responsible for the suffering of another wife and her children?
4. You will leave as malfalada as he
It will lead to scoundrel and traitor fame. What fame do you think a woman who engages in an extramarital affair leads to? In such cases, the world is often more cruel to women. It’s not worth tarnishing your honor.
5. You can not leave this story with dignity and with your head held high.
You do not need (nor should you) humiliate yourself so that the husband is with you, instead of the lover, or begging for love. But you should also not try to go out on top paying in the same currency. It’s a shot that always backfires.
When a woman is betrayed, she can simply wipe away tears, lift her head and move forward with dignity without looking back. That is a victory!
6. You will end up feeling even more unhappy.
If you betray your revenge, you will not feel happier. Happiness is only achieved through dignified, ennobling choices. You will feel even more unhappy and may end up even falling into depression.
The best revenge
The best way to take revenge on a betrayal is to simply focus on yourself, pursuing goals that will take your life to a higher level, be it professionally, intellectually, spiritually, or emotionally. Want a better outcome for a sad story of betrayal, injustice and loss than this, to achieve a quiet and happy life?
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