6 Tips In Developing A Better And Good Relationship With People
1. Believe in the human being
People can not be labeled. You do not boil down to this or that attitude of yours, others do not. We must understand that we do not always act the best, but our mistakes can not condemn us forever. So give it a chance for yourself and everyone around you.
2. Take away the judgments
Recognizing and identifying obstacles to compassion and empathy, such as unexamined beliefs, is critical in building good relationships.
Thoughts of judgment based on preconceptions and habitual patterns of behavior jeopardize relationships. Be lighter and practice respect.
3. Identify your interests
Seek to clearly determine and express your basic needs without shame or expectations. Do not put on the shoulders of anyone the burden of having to understand your feelings.
Who has to know your needs is yourself, so try to understand what you need and speak with clarity and patience, seeking to facilitate understanding.
4. Control your reactions
Acting as a result of the action of another usually brings about serious deception and sad regrets. Reacting violently and speaking aggressively is one of the biggest reasons for the worst and most distressing misunderstandings.
Violence, unbalanced aggression, creates a sickening environment, interior and exterior. It generates fear, tension, stress, sadness, resentment, hurt, guilt, insecurities. Feelings that are the origin of most diseases physical
5. Dedicate yourself to listening
To know how to speak is not enough, it is essential to listen with determination to understand. It is necessary to be open-minded, without judgments, without premature conclusions, and without presumption.
6. Develop compassion
Having compassion is much more intense than having pity or pity. When we feel sorry somehow we feel superior or in a better condition than the other.
To feel compassion, it is essential to be on the same level, to absorb the context of the situation from the perspective of the other. When we become compassionately involved in the other’s difficulty, we come to believe that there is a possible solution, and we encourage our fellow beings to believe as well.
Consideration, respect, empathy and compassion are key elements to following the above tips and developing more friendly and happy living together with our peers.
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