Here Are 10 Ways to Evaluate Your Relationship
Are you in a relationship that you think must be evaluated? Then here are some ways to do so.
1. If other people criticize me, I’m not a worthy person.
2. The approval of other people is very important to me.
3. I can make everyone like me, I just have to try.
4. I find it impossible to go against the wishes of other people.
5. Unless I get a constant compliment, I feel I’m not worth it.
6. Life becomes unbearable if I am not loved by my family.
7. If I love someone who does not love me, the problem lies with me.
8. I can keep people from being upset if I think about what they want.
9. If I fight with my friends, it must be my fault.
10. If the people around me are upset, I tend to think it’s my fault.
Trying to see your relationships more realistically may be the first step. Stop blaming yourself for everything and learning to be yourself, regardless of your partner, and never basing your self-esteem according to the amount of love you receive, can mean the end of high expectations that hinder your personal and loving fulfillment.
